If you're wondering do ghosters come back the answer is yes. He sounds like he has some strong Virgo somewhere dominant in his chart. Did something happen that made you change your mind?. He was after me for almost a year before I gave him a second chance. I called no answer. He didnt respond. I dont get it. I try to show him how I want to be touched but he really doesnt do it. He stayed at my place almost every night for about 2 weeks, then left for 6 weeks to handle personal things. When a Pisces goes silent, something is definitely up with him. So my Pisces guy and I have been together 4 years he has done a lot of shitty things like leaves and doesnt message me to tell me where hes going and at times gets drunk and stays out very late without me knowing where he is. It depends on him and what his belief system is. Would he actually make it into a reality? He replied he thinks what happened the previous night will not happen again, and that he finds me very intelligent and loves our discussions and he wouldnt love to continue that but he thought of being honest with me since Im looking for someone, hoping that I would not feel used. So 2 months back he called me trying to see me but unfortunately he got busy and had to cancel and he was apologetic about it. He tells me hes not taken me for granted but his responses to my supportive behavior are very vague if he even responds at all. Even Ive apologized to my pisces man sincerely and bare my soul for him to see, he is still being a bit distant with me and it hurts. I wish you all the luck of the universe! Its not easy to be with a Pisces man if youve never experienced one before. An Aries man is a busy man. I wonder if this is it this time. Im a Scorpio and I met him at 20 and he was so crazy about me emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. He has plans of studying where I am. then the text relationship began to move so fast, and I began to feel my soul, his soul bonding together, so quickly. Me and Evan were talking about pianos when suddenly kohen told his brother (loud enough for me to hear, but acted like it was just between him and his brother) that he should start playing guitar again. He said why give time to something its not gonna change? I said You know yourself better than I do. I think Id tell him that if he needs to figure out himself then you will gladly give him some time and space but if hed like to develop the bond more, youll be there. Thats a first! We also slept together but this didnt work out very well, which I did not consider a big issue as it was the first time (nervousness) and we also had a lot of wine. I think Its too early to even start talking about sex and he says, we adults shouldnt put a time on things. He is a pisces man with venus in Aquarius. He probably still carries a torch for you. Just because hes super attracted to you and wants to have sex with you doesnt mean he wants more than that. I told him I was sorry and that I dont want him to hate me but all he said was I dont hate anyone. Then at every practice, the trumpets would talk about how I liked him. Pisces is an expert game player. When they ghost you and come back, read their message carefully. This is again one of the tactics your Pisces man uses to test you. When you do; youll realize that though hes a smooth talker; hes fallible and you can calculate if Pisces man playing mind games is happening or not. If he did, hed be reaching out to you and making sure that youre still around. I know he really loves me just by his actions and words. Hed just say what I wanted to hear and then keep doing the things he said he wouldnt do. While all this is going on he is also going through a something that can affect his life. Make sure you read all the way until the end. But if you have tried those options already and his distant behavior has not changed, he may just need to be reeled in. I did and we had sex, watched a movie, cuddled and he asked if he could see me. I needed to say something about the texting though, I get crazy with over thinking. We had made an agreement to see each other the next day, which was Monday. Did he swim away because I didnt cave in? From the beginning we had a great Connection. He told me that we could work through it. Please help me, Anna Kovatch. I was shocked to receive, a message from this man out of nowhere. Anyway he also used to mention how much he will be taking care of me and buying me a car but all of a sudden doesnt say it but talks about the future and all of a sudden wants to hear about my problems. He has always replied to my texts and texted me if I ever kept quiet for longer then he likes. If you feel as if youre gonna lose your shit with him, make sure that you do everything in your power to calm yourself before talking with him. His actions and words arent lining up. I dont know what to do anymore. I really dont know what to do. So hes making excuses and pushing it back to you. Recently hes feeling not himself and feeling that something is off and suddenly thinks we should be friends and that he needed space and will reach out when ready. I feel confused that why did he then want to take things forward with me ? Well for the past 3 years Ive been working on myself and trying to forget about him and getting my life together as a young adult. He ghosted me for a couple days came back and apologized saying he needed space because it irritated him how Id freak out, but I reminded him I was high. Ok well, he sounds like hes a very private person. Pisces is one of those frustrating people who just assume that everything is going downhill instead of actually asking you if you still have feelings for him. Show Up 4. There after he didnt see me for 2 months which was so weird and unusual and I tried my best to be positive and patient with him. My story is actually a little different but i would love some advice, im a virgo woman in a relationship with a pisces man and so it start out when i met him at a party in 2018 and his eyes dont leave me soon as i walk through the door, later on that evening we got aquatinted and i gave him my goodies a little too early but months went by and he still kept in touch then out of the blue got a girlfriend so we stopped talkin of course then almost a year late they broke up and he wanted my friendship so we ended up gettin cool again and hangin out with eachother and after a while of that December 2nd of 2020 rolls around and he decides he wants to be my boyfriend so i say yes then 3months into our relationship he decides wants to see what its like with another girl then 3short days later he apologizes and tells me it was a mistake and he wants to be with me then 2short days go by and he tells me something is missing and i tell him he can never come back now almost a week has went by and he come back saying he misses me now i dont know if im being played with or if he really does want to be with me and just is scared. That will take a lot of work. He read it out loud and it said, dear kohen, I like you a lot, do you like me back. It felt like something stabbed me to hear those words. Pisces men can tell white lies and omit information like no ones business. I sent an apology email, and I messaged him on messenger, apologizing and asking to be unblocked. Im so confused he says all these things but acts like hes scared? Then 2020 he asked me temporarily if he could stay at my place til he got on his feet. Its just so confusing for me. Pisces guy about a week ago via a dating app. Too flakey and wishy-washy for most women. And, if you want to know how long until . Watch him, listen to him, and watch for the signs a Pisces man is playing you. Alright so I absolutely agree with your therapist. He always talks about us traveling and doing this and that but nothing so far, he still says it but nothing. Instead of trusting your fears, you should trust your own intuition. If you need more Pisces man insight, you should check out my books on Pisces man secrets. Youll get right to the truth and he wont be able to hide as easily. I dont think you did anything wrong. Tell him how you feel about him, show him by showering him with affection and cuddles (they love cuddles). If you need more help, please check out my book Pisces Man Secrets. I couldnt contact him on the weekends too and being busy was always be his reason. Things went really up and down but it was because I was high and Im terrified of talking about my feelings, and the fact hes not a good texter made me anxious. We even had our first night without sex which was so weird but i didnt mind he was still very affectionate and loving also we didnt because I had come of birth control coz of hormonal issues so I think thats also a reason. He needs to find middle ground with you. A Pisces man is sensitive to competition in the relationship. But he still lets me know things at the last minute. Body movement is a good indicator also. He wont commit but has talked to me about marriage and have another baby. When hes done, hes done and you wont hear from him again. Sometimes I cant help but feel like him being a Pisces and saying all these things is just his dreamy side. Also check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets for more information. Hes unsure of himself and his decisions so he wants to back up and have some time. Typical leo woman, I like consistency. Yes, Gemini moon can make him two faced. Well lator nov 2018 he asked me to be just seeing him and be on a relationship. The best thing you can do is just to step away from him and keep your self-respect intact. Dont sell yourself short. We then moved on to exchanging numbers and would message each other almost everyday. I know he was hoping for more but I said no. He called me back and thanked me for showing concern and not getting upset. He had his head in other places and breaking up is probably the best thing for you to do with him. He was upset, because he said I did not trust him. Hi I met my pisces man and started dating 5 months ago. Its great to hear from you. Hi there, so here is my situation. Although I thought that was kind quick I said yes! Then I reached out to him, and he responded, and we got cozy again, and he began to tell me he could not wait to see me. I deflected and didnt give a solid answer. I loved his cheeky approach and enjoyed chatting to him and it escalated quickly as he was saying all the right things. But just as the article said, he never delivered. You simply have to learn what they are and what you can do about it. he send me his picture, I know what he looks like. I wouldnt recommend doing the silent treatment. Read up more on Pisces guys in my book Pisces Man Secrets. You can still show him you care without coming off as clingy. Giving him space will be your best option, followed by reaching out to him to see if he is Okay. In my experience, most of the men who ghosted me came back always with a bad excuse and an apology. I think that in time hell finally give in and give it the title you want. and there were many things, he said perfect. We both said mean things to eachother then he said he was done with me. Don't let this idiocy make you furrow your brow. Right now youre giving off mixed signals to him by telling him that its too soon to be exclusive but then now wondering if he has a girlfriend. But until the two of you have the conversation about taking things to the next step, he feels like he is allowed to keep his options open. Be honest with him and tell him you will not do this back and forth with him any longer and either he wants to be with you for the long haul or he doesnt but there is no in-between. 5. We would have the longest phone conversations ever. He gets quiet but if I call him out on something he will I guess be honest. Ghosted, I didnt bug him or anything, because Im understanding maybe he has got some stuff he needs to sort out. im a leo woman and this guy has been trying to meet up with me for over half a year now. Here are some things you can look for in order to determine what may be going on. It got ridiculous during that convo, he only texted me once a dayI finally said something and he never responded. I declined because my schedule would not permit but would f/u with him tomorrow with a date. Saying we should meet up and he will call me the next day. ? He had his hand on the door partly opened and looked down while slightly smiling and said no. Hopefully hell agree and then youll be able to work through it. He wants to see how far he can push things with you and how much he can get away with. And it isnt as hard as you may think. I wish you all the best! He wasnt trying to gain my trust back and he never tried to work through problems with me. Im the only girl he constantly brought with his family. So he blocked me! Most Pisces men are looking for their one and only, so they dont do a whole lot of playing. Did you get played by a Pisces man? A Pisces man isnt your obvious, go-to player type. He replied instantly which was surprising with a yes. So I text him at noon and say so no more morning texts? And he response is so Im the only one who can text? Implying it would be nice if I texted too. He does know I recently lost my job due to this pandemic and his always been so understanding and supportive about it even used to give me money for no reason and without asking either but that has stopped and I really dont mind Ive never asked for it anyway. You need to be perfectly honest with him and ask him if there is someone else in his life. If youd like, you can learn more about me on this page here. Later on, once the school year started, and our band was preparing for our big competition in 2 months, we had practices every week on Tuesday and Thursday for 5 hours each. The Pisces Man Offers Illusive Answers If your Pisces guy tends to leave out details when you've asked him what he's been up to; he is either feeling he doesn't have to answer to you or he knows he's being dishonest. You may have unresolved karma between you. I could give you more helpful hints on how to deal with Pisces. I guess he doesnt realize that he is only hurting himself by behaving this way. They are players and will cheat on any woman of the zodiac sign including me so if you like it then marry a pisces, but if you dont like the cheating then dont marry a pisces man. Why would that change because of distance? And he will quickly notice that when you disappear because you have had enough. Bring Him Back Down to Reality. We met for lunch and a long walk, and later in the afternoon we went to my place to start cooking. Go Ahead and Contact Him 2. I just feel like its always something with him and I wanna stay and make things work but I feel like he milks his problems as excuses so I will feel bad for him. I wasnt expecting to like him this time. HE would show lots of interest in you not just physical. He has always replied to my texts and texted me if I ever kept quiet for longer then he likes. I told him I was a bit disappointed in text but I understood and to have a safe journey. And if he says he wants to commit, make sure you both set boundaries for your relationship as early as possible. He also loves to sleep or his alone time, he will come to my house and just fall asleep, & I get annoyed but I dont say anything because I know he gets tired from traveling and sports. Im overthinking things and Im feeling like he doesnt want to be bothered anymore even though he told me how he felt. Anyway he also used to mention how much he will be taking care of me and buying me a car but all of a sudden doesnt say it but talks about the future and all of a sudden wants to hear about my problems. If he isnt being honest; he wont be able to keep his gaze on your eyes; hell look away and fumble his words. Also what was with him not seeing me for 2 months that was weird too. Hes dual natured x 2. PISCES. This man in the armed forces, overseas. He would do all PDA in front of friends but nothing when we are alone. Naturally, hes likely to deny it if you call him out so dont be surprised if he does. You do need to keep the communication open and be sure that youre not jumping to conclusions or doubting him when he tells you that hes alright and you should stay calm. Ghosting is, of course, a childish thing to do, but it can also be caused by other factors like stress or anxiety. It may reveal to you how these guys think. However; there is always a way to catch someone in a lie and hes no different and that is body language! Pisces women, on the other hand, are more trustworthy in general. I also asked him were do we stand after the intentions question and he said that we are working on a us. These guys are super sensitive to other peoples emotions, but this also gives them a great amount of power because they know how to push peoples buttons. The last pisces that i dated seemed too busy for me everyday even for a single text. Some of them are even Masochistic people: the worse you treat them, the more they care. This is all just a test to see how far he can push things with you, and he gets a rise out of how you respond. He got a 2nd job without discussing what I think. Pisces Moon - 2 years. First, let me give some background. Pisces men want lots of attention and adoration from the person they consider to be their partner. Try not to criticize him or say things in a way that might sound like it. Dont succumb to his manipulation by giving him all the power. He came with an excuse saying he was going through personal issues and wanted to isolated himself. This is where I first met this guy named Kohen (also not my real name). He would not reply to some of my texts; he would ignore me when he saw me at the gym, he would say that he might be able to hang out, then cancel on me last minute, etc. But I already started to feel things are very off. If he shifts uncomfortably or becomes a little jittery then you know hes probably not being forthcoming or truthful in whatever it is that hes telling you. i blocked him for two weeks because he was being such an ass but then missed him so i came back. Hi Your email address will not be published. His repose was he doesnt want to get atttached to me because he wont be able to write his medical exam which he didnt do for 10 years because he was attached to his previous ex. This year is so sad for me and I just want to know how to talk to him and make him understand that we have kids involve and I need to see my kids and talk to them. I would suggest you learn more about Pisces men. after I got done with my views, which were all matching his. So your ghoster might have acted selfishly but then realized their mistake and are feeling guilty for hurting you. It hurts. I ever had, it just about knocked the wind out of me., But he will always text me. Im just now figuring out his mood swings. He does have alot of luxurious cars by the way maybe 10. I am supposed to go visit him in a week, but I dont know if he wants me to come or not. If you need more Pisces help, check out my book. I got up the next morning and he was upset that Inwas leaving so early without even waking him up and wanted to know why. Its weird. This is my first time dating a pisces so is it because we are moving too fast that he just wants to be friends and when he says he will reach out, will he really or is he just softening the blow? Hes about to take me on a hunting trip. He replied, we can hang out, but go ahead and invite your mom because I have a bunch of certifications I need to get, and I will be in the weeds for the next 6-8 weeks. I got confused because he was saying it was a trip, then he was saying it was certifications, so I replied saying Im kinda confused. So I texted him saying that I figured everything out and that he was lying to me and I did get quite rude, but Im human. Money shouldnt be anything between you two. With my Scorp, intuition I KNOW what love and making love would be with this man! Another thing Ive observed from them is that, the less emotionally invested you are in them, the more they care. This is all absolutely normal behavior I hate to say. How do I know the things he said in that message is a lie so he can just keep me on a string not to move on? He asked for a gift back, and I got agitated; I lashed out and said hurtful things about him. I did not except the FaceTime because it seemed too soon. When a Pisces man is done with you, you will most definitely know. What is your advice for me? This is what makes Pisces men such good liars. He knows all the right things to say to get into your life or into your pants. Its been 3 days. In the beginning, we didnt talk to each other because we didnt know each other. Can you please help me with some advice. I was talking to a Pisces man but he is such a player he will spend 4 days with me and the very same day he will go home his ex she comes over she leaves her panties there at his house and he says she not his girl but she helps him out ? Much he can get away with pisces man ghosted me and came back what may be going on to sort out crazy with thinking! 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